My daughter decided that a class size of 300 or more students in her junior year was not for her. So she decided to switch to a different campus at the same school. It’s 1 hour further away. Then the headache begins of changing campuses. First re letting her studio apartment. Fortunately, a studio is something the people seek and she was able to re-let. She found an apartment,unfurnished and began the process. She moved and slept on the floor until we could get a truck to bring some furniture. Our furniture is in storage. I rented a Penske truck from Home Depot ($30 plus $.60 per mile). And I found a free table from a friend and planned to raid our storage for a bed, table ,dresser and couch.
This is where the adventure began. We picked up the free table. My daughter was worried it was too big. Then we hit the storage facility. As we opened the garage to see the contents for the first time, instantly my daughter thought it wasn’t worth it. We had to move around furniture to get to the sofa that was in the back. All together it took 3 hours to get a mattress, a dresser, a sofa and a console table. Worth it? I think so.
We then headed to her apartment. She has one stair case to her 2nd floor apartment that goes straight up. It’s narrow. Her boyfriend was really concerned about getting the sofa up the stairs. I re-assured him it was possible and that we would find a way. We had to shift that sofa a certain way and take it step by step. By the end it sounded like I was having labor on those stairs. There was no one around willing or able to help…we did it!
The table was too big. We kept the chairs and drove the 5 foot table to Good Will. I offered to purchase an inexpensive table that would fit. Her apartment is in a nicer area. It’s an older apartment complex and her apartment is newly renovated. Nice.
I am starting to see my daughter’s adult personality shine through. And it’s pretty cool. I can’t wait to see what the future holds. Considering all that we have been through. I am surprised and happy to see her dedication to school and work. There was no guarantee she would choose a path of education. She is not into the typical college campus life style. Neither was I. This is where I get in trouble, thinking I could write the story for my daughter got me in HUGE trouble before…I let go, and she begins to pick up exactly as I saw myself at her age.
It’s not a football thing. Even though this weekend is all about football. It’s a mulch thing. Three yards cost $120 delivered. And it took 20 hours of work to dispurse it. That is exactly what I did over labor day weekend. Again, with the prep for putting the house on the market, I tackled the biggest job. The outside. The stager said that curb appeals gets people in. I put this off because of the amount of time I knew it would take.
The stager said our yard looked overgrown. I’m guessing that a landscaper would charge about $500-$600 to remove some bushes, trim and mulch the yard. I really wish I would have taken a before picture. There were several bushes that were just crowded and webworm looks like it did some damage on Indian Hawthorn bushes. It took 40 minutes per bush to take out mini bottle brush. Indian Hawthorn were easier to remove.
The dump truck came and dumped the mulch. And I tried to protect the driveway from the stain. FYI that makes it harder to shovel the mulch into a wheelbarrel when you have it on something plastic like a tarp. I started Friday after work with the trimming. I took out plumbago which is a pretty blue flower that fills in like a weed. I cut it to the ground, so sadly, it will try to grow back. For now it looks fantastic. We just need to sell and get out of here. I am really tired of throwing out stuff and keeping the place looking pristine and it’s not even on the market yet.
Also, Google is awesome! The stager said I need to remove some rust stains from an iron door mat. I found that muratic acid removed those stains and it did! So I don’t have to buy a new mat.
I’m happy to have saved the money and wonder what I could have done with 20 extra hours. I did manage to go to a baseball game, play tennis, spend a little time with my daugher and go to a nice lunch with my husband. I’m thinking at this point camping is a great option. No upkeep! Speaking of which I can’t wait for Big Bend!!!!!!!!! I put in that lock by the way. The last lock got to the point that you had to shoulder in to get the door open. It was pretty easy to change the door hardware and I’ve been pleased with the results. Just picked that bad boy up at Home Depot and replaced it.
In preparation for selling our house , I am trying to tidy up some things. It cost ways too much money to have landscapers do things. There are some things I need them for that I can’t get too, like trimming the palms, they are just too tall. I never thought I postage stamp size yard would require so much landscaping. My husband says we live on 1/6 of an acre. Anyway, the one day freeze reeked havoc on our plants. I had to take out the 1 year old dwarf oleanders and trim back the bottle brush that were completely brown and were not coming back (this is where I used the chain saw).
I asked the neighbor if he would move his gazebo which currently houses farm rabbits. (I am pretty certain this is not allowed in our neighborhood…they smell like bat poop). Anyway, he just said go for it. I didn’t damage his gazebo and I tried really hard not too. I have bottle brush tree dead limbs in my garage, behind the waterfall and behind the garage. It’s going to take a lot of work to get it to the street for garbage pick up. Ugh!
Next up was replacing the Italian cypress trees in planter boxes. I fit these babies in a camaro! whoo hoo!
Lastly for the backyard is the replacement of the oleanders. I love the hot pink ones, but couldn’t get them in dwarf size. So peach it is. I waited at least a month for the local nursery to replenish supply. They didn’t. Oh well, this is for the new owners.
I think our backyard is nice. My daughter and I enjoyed the hot tub last night. So I am the pool man too and have had a hard time keeping the pool clean and algae free. In our new place we will not have a pool. I never thought I’d be ok without being around water. I am ok with it for now. Our new place will have such a better layout and a large covered patio.
I will miss some things but not others. I won’t miss the neighbor across the street with their cars. I will miss my tennis club and friends, how convenient it is to get to the store. I’ll miss my one neighbor for sure. Who would have thought after so long being here, she would be the one that I have the closest bond with? Our lives have changed so much. I think it’s time for a change. And I’m excited for our new adventure!
After raising two kids, life has impeccable timing of changing things up. My husband’s workplace is moving far enough to make the commute too long. Plenty of people make an hour commute and think nothing of it. We have talked a while about moving into a home with a more efficient use of space, just couldn’t decide where. The job narrowed the decision for us. To me it’s stressful uprooting from one place to another. The logistics of selling and buying makes it almost impossible to time both perfectly. We have looked at homes for sale and decided it works better to build. Maybe if we could get Chip and Joanna Gaines from Fixer upper or the Property Brothers to transform a home for us, that would work. However, that is unlikely.
We sold our first house to move into our current one and found success in selling then moving into an apartment during the build of the new house. So this is the plan once again. Searching for communities was the first step. Where would you start? We have plenty experience with what we like and don’t like about living in a community. My first thought is space! We have 4 cars now with two adult kids and parking is painful right now. To top that off our neighbor across from us has 8 cars in their single narrow driveway. In Texas you can really stretch out. Maybe too much. We found some home sites that are away from it all and on septic tank systems for waste. We’ve experienced that and any problem with a septic tank to me is too much! We’ve never had a problem being on a sewer system. Next, an affordable master planned community. Living in one has it’s pros and cons. For one if you have deed restrictions, your property values should stay up. Sure it’s annoying to get a letter about your weeds in your flower beds. However you won’t have to live next to someone who let’s it go too far. Lastly, surroundings, we narrowed the search to a few communities and the real deciding factor came down to the surroundings of the community. One was a community that was buried in other communities. It felt like an endless drive through communities to get to it. And the other had a long road to it, you know sometimes you just like it or don’t and we just didn’t like it. Maybe because there was no real business amenities that you need to get things done (grocery stores, restaurants, medical facilities, mechanics, do – it – yourself places, nurseries, etc.). We found a nice community. I’m concerned about it being close to a freeway, however it will make it convenient to get to all of the places we need to get things done. Once in the community, you wouldn’t know there is a freeway close by.
We have picked a plan and a lot. It’s hard to get exactly what you want, hence the compromise. We will make it into something great! To new beginnings!